How to have a threesome

Haven’t we all at some point had this porn-induced fantasy of making love with two women at the same time? Ask any young male what his biggest sex wish is, and he’ll probably yell out that it’s a threesome, or perhaps a foursome, but that’s a whole different story. Yes, it’s true – we’d all like to be there and enjoy the pleasure, but just like with everything else these days, having an amazing threesome has its consequences. In order to avoid these, read on.


Find a Suitable Partner



Let’s start with the basics: you will obviously need someone who is equally turned on by the idea of having a threesome. While there are no rules in sex, you’d naturally want at least one of the partners to be someone you know and are familiar with, however finding such a person may be tricky. If you are looking for the “no strings attached” option, you must define your boundaries as you’ll both want to be on the same page.



If you are looking to spice things up with your current partner, well, things get a little more complicated. In order to have a great threesome and not ruin your relationship, you must both equally desire this experience and have an open mind. As always when it comes to sex, communication is key, and you’ll want to dedicate enough time to each aspect of this experience.



Find a Suitable… Third Person?



Considering you have the basics covered and have a partner you are willing to explore with, now comes the tricky part: finding a third person willing to participate. What are the things you should consider beforehand? Well, for one you should think whether you want the third person to be someone familiar or a complete stranger. There are pros and cons of both.



For instance, having an established bond with both partners will surely result in amazing sex, however this may have a negative impact on both of your relationships. On the other hand, a threesome with a complete stranger shouldn’t cause much trouble (unless your partner is the jealous type, but then you wouldn’t bother in the first place).



If you are willing to go with a familiar person, I’d suggest you consider some of your close friends who are not only open-minded, but most importantly do not pose a threat to your relationship. If having sex with your loved one and a stranger is more your thing, then maybe you should look into getting a suitable (second) partner through a high class escort service, such as the one in Sydney. This should keep the experience purely physical and not resolve in any problems between you and your loved one afterwards.



Prepare to Deal with Consequences



Be aware of what you are getting into and most importantly, how this may change your relationship. A threesome will have a long-lasting effect on both you and your partner, and you want to make sure it will be a positive one. If you believe one of you may be jealous, do not even attempt, as these things may ruin your relationship. Communicate and express your feelings at all times. Even if you are in the middle of sex, if you or your partner suddenly become unconfident or nervous, make sure to stop the entire act before any permanent damage is done.

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